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  1. I hate how everyone is blaming OP when it seems they do not have much autonomy. Their parents are anti her having abortion, their FWB seems against it initually. Doesnt this show the culture/education of her area? How easy might it be for them to get contraceptive? I'm sure there is a lot of societal pressures on her, if it's a very Christian state she might not have been even given sex Ed, so I feel like we should stop blaming this woman who might very well be a victim to the system and her environment. This is why sex education being taught everywhere is important, but the reality is that in America at least, the education is not consistent from state to state.

  2. I'm trying not to blame her but she's making it hard. 2 kids tells me she knows how babies are made and she has clearly learned what methods of birth control don't work. She's using plan B as birth control which tells me she has at least some money/access to reproductive Healthcare. I am also from Oklahoma and yes, it's the Bible belt, but we have sex Ed starting in the 8th grade here at our public schools. To be clear, the boyfriend deserves equal blame for having unprotected sex.

  3. I'm getting deep south state vibes here. Abortion illegal, shitty sex ed, very young mother with multiple kids, no religious parents trying to push for marriage. 🤔

  4. Fairly certain I saw her say she's in Oklahoma in her comments. Gotta love the Bible belt /s

  5. You’ve been on a roll with excellent BORU posts lately. Keep ‘em coming, please!!

  6. Thanks for letting me know. I’ll go in the comments and answer some questions and then post another update since it’s been a while since my last one

  7. We would love another update as I know a ton of people are worried about you. I hope your mom has been able to keep him away from you over the last 10 days.

  8. I have posted the update on my profile if you want to add it to the post or make another one :)

  9. I've got it added. I'm so glad you're getting some of the support you need now. I can't believe people on the aita post were calling yta. That's insane. Please listen to your mom and cut yourself some slack. It totally understandable that you wanted to try to keep your dad in your life. I'm so sorry he continues to let you down.

  10. I actually did, I haven’t felt the need to include every detail of this ordeal in my posts.

  11. If you're having a hard time figuring out how to describe what he does or just literally how to break it to her, maybe you could go over it with another trusted adult first. A teacher, counselor or a friends parent.

  12. OOP here. Yeah it’s really creepy and I hate it. I don’t know if it counts as s*xual abuse like other commenters have said, but I don’t know a lot about it so I can’t be the judge of that.

  13. Does it make you feel uncomfortable? I mean, in a way other than being an annoying parent? You can absolutely be the judge of how you feel in your own body. I hope you have told your mom about these inspections too.

  14. I lost a friend recently and was laid in the floor sobbing and my tuxedo boy came up to me and just sat beside me. Such a good cat.

  15. We feed ours 3 times a day, always the same times. They will get in my face and just stare when the time is coming up.

  16. Us too. We have 7 and one of my girls is like the dinner bell. At each meal time, on the dot, she sounds the alarm and the other 6 come running. She continues to yell gently remind us it's time to eat while the rest stare us down. It's oddly comical and slightly creepy LOL

  17. I’m so sorry to hear that. I want to tell you my story. I just want to give a little hope.

  18. My late aunt's ex murdered her too. The first one cheated on her because his mom thought he could get a "better (more MIL-doormat)" lady and he agreed with his mom, and the second one murdered her.

  19. We don’t “miss” the red flags. We don’t see them. We think we deserve it, that’s just the way it. Is. And then when we do see the flags it’s hard to get out.

  20. Just to be clear, I'm not assigning blame when I say that. I absolutely understand that when you're in it, they have you believing every shitty thing they do is your fault.

  21. I need context. Is this person being facetious? Or is this really her idea of healthy

  22. Omg ha I’m glad you asked because I wasn’t sure. These days…I’m never surprised haha.

  23. Right? That's the same thing I thought, you can never be sure these days!

  24. Good and bad, I’m emotionally drained and I couldn’t tell you if it’s PPD or the divorce but my family is still here supporting me and I can confidently say that me and baby are going to be okay. This post hasn’t crossed my mind in a while but when I have the energy I’ll write about everything that happened since it’s a lot :) thank you for checking up on me.

  25. At the risk of seeming like a stalker, just wanted to see how it's going

  26. Basically, she monetizes her children's traumas, health problems, and their every waking move with absolutely zero regard for their privacy and inability to consent to any of it.

  27. So this person body shames a person for body shaming someone else?

  28. She tried doing it the right way. Some assholes just won't hear you until you speak their language.

  29. When did she try and do it the right way? From reading the story I can only see her being quiet about it for ages, then snapping and body shaming.

  30. This mistake doesn't undo the mature and graceful way you handled all of these changes in your life. Some mistakes you have to learn on your own, the hard way. I'm still learning from my mistakes in my 40's. You learn, you grow. And we're all still pretty damn proud of the person you are.

  31. You're right, and thank you and everyone that has commented I feel like I have the strength to move on. I will only accept him back until he has gone through both individual and couples counseling.

  32. Please hang on to that strength. I know this is hard but your babies are worth it and you are too.

  33. Ya, I'm actually doing pretty good. Focusing on my mental health and figuring out a long-term plan for me and the kids

  34. So glad to hear this; I've been thinking about you. Take care of yourself

  35. I would say divorce the wife give the daughter the chance to go back to dance and make friends. I get how competitive gymnastics can make a person (watched it through a sibling. That plus golden child not a good mix in my opinion) but seriously sometimes they need to just chill and realize they’re not in meets anymore. Adjust as an adult let your child be a child with her own interests

  36. I know reddit is often too quick to yell divorce, but damn, this is not a good situation

  37. From all the BORUs here, this one hit me personally the hardest. Like, right into the "uff" organ.

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